Fabulous FRENCH Friday!

So I have recently become obsessed with french things and going to Paris! Which I have put on my must travel to list which I will share with you later!

A couple of weeks ago BB and I ventured out to a french restaurant in town called Mon Petit Bistro and it was really small and quaint. There were some down sides but it was a big step for me to get out of my comfort zone and try something new but I have has escargot before!

  #adventurous

While we were out for dinner we tried the MOULES  À LA MARINIÈRE which were fabulous! (I love muscles) and then as entrees we ate the FILET DE POULET Á LA NORMANDE (bland) and STEAK AU POIVRE (way too peppery!) so overall it wasn't that great of a meal because not only was the service really slow but because it was next to the cinema every time the door would open it would smell like buttered popcorn. The plus side was the interior decor it was all posters of old french movies and different locals all over France like Cannes and Nice. très chic!

Although I did not enjoy the restaurant that much I am looking forward to visiting another french restaurant and won't let this experience ruin it for me :)

Going back to what really got me interested in France and Paris specifically is this beautiful Eiffel tower candle holder I saw at home goods and it was just so beautiful that I became obsessed with it and for a moment I was considering redoing my room in a Parisian style but I refrained because that would have just been too much.  But I have been inspired and I can not wait to visit the city of lights one day and bring back all my fabulous finds!

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I will post all about my weekend adventures from this month on Monday! There is one more weekend left this month so make the most out of it!

Have a great weekend!

XOXO-RPO1

Hello Fall!

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Today was a such a beautiful day! I feel like we are being eased into Autumn and I could not be happier. I have said it before that I was counting down the days until summer was over and it was time for all the fall fun!

I would definitely say that Autumn is my favorite season and I think the fact that I live in New England plays a major part of that because no matter how beautiful a sunny summer day is it can not beat the true beauty of fall foliage on a crisp October day!

I can not wait until its officially jeans, boots and sweater weather! With the current unpredictable temperatures it makes it difficult to plan out an appropriate outfit! Although this is not the worlds biggest burden to wear but I am overly excited for my new wardrobe so the weather needs to flip fast! I also love the rain as I posted about here! On top of how cool and calming the rain is, I love wearing my rain boots and rain coat and fashion always makes a rainy day a little bit brighter!

On top up all the beautiful scenery that is soon to come I have so many fun fall activities planned and I can not wait to share them all with you!

 First up this weekend is the Big E! Which is a New England tradition in my opinion and it is something I so look forward to every year for all the food, fun, and attractions! Pictures to follow of course!

What are you favorite fall traditions? 

XOXO- RPO1

Fabulous Finds Friday!

Welcome to the end of another wonderful week! Although I love bringing you all the fabulous finds that I have found in fashion as well as other areas of life sometimes it is important to just sit back relax and take some time for yourself! The most important thing in your life should always be yourself because if you can't take care of you then you will not be able to give the best of yourself to others. Along with many things that you can do to make you feel better and happier about yourself and life I would like to share with you the 3 things that I am obsessed with this week and how they really help me, be the best me!

First off I have a confession to make I am the worst, worst, worst person when it comes to hydrating and I feel like I have gone days without drinking water! I know this is literally the worst thing ever but I promise that I have gotten a million times better at that and I think that it greatly because of my CamelBak! I love drinking out of straw and because drinking out of this is more fun than a regular water bottle I am more likely to use it because I don't have to worry about it leaking all over the place or getting all busted. I love it and as per the usual I can not wait to add my monogram on it ;)

 

The best drinking accessory

 

Second thing that I like to do to help my feel refreshed and like I am giving my best face to the world ;) is to use Herbalism. Not only do I love using Lush products because I have very sensitive skin and it does not irritate it but I also like that they are hand made products that are not shipped out to any big box store so I know if I have questions there will be someone there who can answer them for me or if I have an issue there is always someone there to assist. I also like that the product is 100% natural!

Lastly the best way to relax is with some aromatherapy. I am literally OBSESSED with this Eucalyptus Spearmint scent. I have it in a lotion, shower gel, hand cream, and a pocket sized hand sanitizer! (like I said obsessed) It has the most amazing smell and it's kind of refreshing as well like the label says apply and take a deep breath!

I hope you enjoyed all my fabulous finds and I also hope some of these products help you relax and make the most out of your holiday weekend!

XOXO- RPO1

Back to school means back to PLANNING!

I have an obsession with planners otherwise know as academic agendas. I think they are the best tool to keep your self organized and a little bit more sophisticated than just putting everything into your phones calendar. A lady does not pull out her phone every other moment to check to see where she is going with her life.

Although I am not going back to school this fall I am still fully utilizing my planner that I purchased last winter and it goes until December of 2014!

Behold my Erin Condren Planner

 

The only life planner that you will ever need!

What I love about my planner is that is shows you the whole month at a glance at first and then when you turn the page it has the days of the week separated by morning, day, and night. This is super helpful for anyone because it does not mean that you need to separate everything by class or just the day of the week! 

The planner is a little pricey as it ends up being over $50 once you are done customizing it and adding on some of the cute things that the website offers but I have to say that it is all worth it in the end and if you think about it, that is only about $4 a month!

If you are looking to spend a little less money to spend to help you get organized for this school year I suggest going to Barnes & Noble they have a lot of cute options at very affordable prices! Like this super cute Elephant one 

So cute and fashionable!

I hope this post has made you a little more excited to go back to school! If you have any of your favorite planners you want to share leave me a comment below!

Planning and Posting one day at a time! 

XOXO- RPO1

Minding your money: financially fit

 

I want to share with you something that I feel is super important but not a lot of people are talking about and that is money! First of all let me start off by saying that I am no financial guru and am just a struggling post grad like most people! The only reason I have this on my mind though is because one of my New Years resolution for this year was to become financially fit, and with only roughly four months left in the year the pressure to keep the promise to myself is becoming unreal.

All of my anxieties aside I hope this blog post can help you get on a strong financial path for your fiscal future!

My first tip is to get all of your accounts into one place and you can do that a couple of ways but one of the tools that I use and absolutely love is Mint is it a free website/app that can help you set budgets as well as give you a grand scope of all the money you have accessible as well as the debt that you have.

• Budgeting: it's a great tool to use because this way you can see how much money you have and then divide it up amongst your different categories like shopping, gas, coffee shops, as well as groceries and you can even create your own categories; for example I had a category for my sorority so that I could track and see how much money I was spending on all the little things and in the end they were really adding up. 

Next tip is to get all of your financial information as well because you can be fiscally fabulous if you don't have all the facts. The best way to do this is to get a copy of your CREDIT REPORT! You as a consumer are entitled to have access to your credit report from all three of the major credit unions once a year. The best way to take advantage of this is by to get one from each bureau every 3 months! 

• Make sure that the first time you are hit with your credit report is not when you are getting denied for a credit card, trying to purchase a car, or when you are applying for a mortgage. There should be no surprises to you and if there is anything that is questionable make sure that you contact the bureau and get more information. I had a discrepancy on one of my reports and I contacted the bureau and they removed it and it was as simple as picking up the phone and the result was a positive impact on my credit!

• Please note; this is not a site that will give you your credit score! It just gives you all the information like the accounts you have open as well as the money you owe and payment history!

 The next thing that I have done to help get myself on the financially fit path is to get all of my past credit card statements so that I can put into perspective all the places that my money has gone. I am a visual person who needs to make sure that I can see exactly where all my money has gone and with that requesting previous statements from credit card companies dated back five years has really helped me. 

• Tip: Financial institutions are required to keep your financial records for the past 7 years so you can get your statements as far back as that!

Lastly, I am now trying so hard to budget my money so that I can enjoy the fruits of my labor but it is hard. I have come out of all of this with a little more piece of mind in that I know what I can and can not spend and I know how to spend responsibly or at least I hope so!

I hope this has helped you and has inspired you to become financially fit as well! If you have any questions or tips of your own I would love to hear them! 

XOXO- RPO1

*I am by no means a financial expert and have only shared my personal experience and tips. There was no compensation given for the links shared in this post, or opinions stated.

Fabulous Finds Friday!

Happy Weekend! I know I haven't posted a lot this week but I have been busy tying up some lose ends and looking into how to make some changes on the blog as well as how to make it a more enjoyable experience for you the reader! During my free time though I did have a few minutes to obsess over some things this week so I could share them with you for Fabulous Finds Friday!

First off I just purchased this book How To Live Like A Lady and I have so enjoyed reading it. I felt like I needed to pick up a good book to read for the summer and I think this is the perfect way to ease me back into reading for enjoyment! I love learning new things about manners and just social etiquette because I think these are valuable lessons and I can't wait to share some in future posts!

What a cute cover!

Next up is the Sock Bun! I know it's been around for a while but I feel like I needed one in my life so bad! I just think it is so cute and classy, plus I got really tired of having my hair up in a hot mess express bun and now I can look more put together! 

Hot mess express hair no more!

And this week I have been on a fall fashion kick and I'm thinking of all the things I want to add to my wardrobe and what's the top of my list is riding boots of course! So If you have any suggestions of your favorite riding boots please share because literally all of my recent browsing history has to do with boots and there are so many temptations!

Books or Boots Suggestions? Leave a comment! 

Have a great weekend!

XOXO- RPO1

Monogram Monday!

I LOVE MONOGRAMS! Literally there is nothing more perfect than owning something with your initials on it, in my opinion. It it because of my some what new found love of monograms that I have decided to dedicate a post to all things that I own with my monogram and am currently dying to have! I wish a gift giving holiday was coming up so I would have a reason to receive all of them :(. Until then here are all my favorite things!

First of all lets talk about the most perfect graduation gift from BB! I literally died when I got these and I could not have been happier! 

Everybody needs weekend luggage so get to it people! 

 

Not only do I love to carry my monogram around I love to wear it! This is a fabulous navy long sleeve that I bought in march so I really haven't been able to enjoy it to it's full potential but I can not wait until fall! I will be wearing it everyday #sorrynotsorry

Before all the navy and white it was all about the Purple Monogram and I have no regrets! These will forever be my favorites <3

 Last but not least my graduation cap! I loved how it looked so simple and classic and it was such a nice touch to help make graduation a little more special. 

Now for my favorite part all the things that I NEED IN MY LIFE!

These hats are just too fresh

 

 

For all the exciting summer adventures

  No outfit is finished without the perfect sunnies! 

 A monogrammed clutch bag is a must have for fall and I will not rest until I have one!

Lastly this is the perfect everyday accessory and I the one item I am coveting the most!

What's your favorite wardrobe item? Are you a lover of monograms like I am? Leave your comments below!

XOXO- RPO1

 

 

Fabulous Finds Friday!

This week I was all about expanding my wardrobe and taking some risks as far as my everyday fashion goes and I have to say that I am pleasantly surprised. The first item that I decided to invest in were some bright pink ankle pants and they were a
hit! I was a little apprehensive at first but I think that my wardrobe was really in need of a pop of color. I also want to mention that these pants compliment my 100 navy tops perfectly so it was a win win all around, plus I got them on clearance so that made the purchase even more justified!






My other favorite purchase this week were my navy blue flats with the pointy toes! I don't have any pointed shoes so this was a really daring move for me but now that I have a pair I think I am a fan! They are so cute and versatile, you can dress them up for a night out of keep it cute and casual at the office or out running errands! As I mentioned before about my 100 navy tops I now have shoes to match them which makes me happy beyond belief! I also bought some skinny khaki pants for work which I love because number one they are so comfortable and number two khaki is the perfect compliment to navy I'm obsessed ! Lastly, I thought it was time to dress up my nails a little bit so I finally broke out Mint Candy Apple by Essie, which I have been dying to use and I think it is the perfect hue to start the send off of summer!

 

One last thing! I got all these items on sale! So make sure you go check out all the fabulous finds this weekend!

What's your favorite late summer purchase? 

Happy August! XOXO-RPO1

Throwback Thursday: Graduation

Graduating college is a pretty big deal and I feel like I never got to share it with you! My plan was to start the blog immediately after graduation but there were so many other things that were going on that I wanted to share with you! I'm also feeling very reflective today because as August is about to start tomorrow it brings up all the memories of getting ready for a new school year and doing one of my favorite things which is buying new school supplies! Although it is not necessary for me to buy some school supplies I don't know if I will be able to keep myself away from an office supply store. So in honor of throwback Thursday here are some pictures from my graduation! Enjoy!

So Collegiate

 Gurdeep and Kulwant were loving it!

 What is a graduation cap with letters and your monogram

White Dress = Classic graduation pic

Totally not a staged photo ;)

Westconn is Bestconn! Thanks for the memories!

Share your favorite throwback Thursday memories! 

XOXO- RPO1

I love a good themed party!

A couple weeks back my friend Sam threw a Surprise birthday party for her boyfriend! Who doesn't love a good surprise party? The theme was  a Hawaiian luau and we were all ask to dress accordingly. First I want to mention that I love when there is a dress code for anything I feel like it makes life easier and the more festive the better! Take a look at how she put all the things together as far as decorations and center pieces everything was done to the nines!

 Talk about festive attire we were ready for the occasion

What a great idea to use the palm tree as a gift holder!

Welcome to the tropics! 

Tiki torches! The only way to light up a luau!

 The palm trees were suspended from the ceiling vents (it was perfection)

I love the face cutouts! It's always important to take time for a photo op!

Say Luau!

Since it was a birthday party after all the cake played a very important part and let me tell you this cake did not disappoint!  Check out the piece DE resistance!

 

Literally perfection in confection form

 

Thirty Flirty and Thriving!

 (sassy pose)

 The flip flops were not a flop in the least bit (absolutely delicious)

I think the goal of all hosts is to have the guests leaving with a great impression from your party, not only because of all the perfect little details but it really is all about the personal touches! I think the one of the most unique aspects to the party was the Bucket list

 Tied into the theme and perfect for a birthday party!

Our parting gift!

(Time flies Happy 30th birthday Ryan!)

The Frisbees were such a hit! Everyone loved them and a party favor is always a nice touch to show your guests that you enjoyed their company and nice way to hold on to the memories!

No shirt

No shoes

No Problems!

 

Cheer's to a fabulous summer!

What's your favorite theme for a party? Leave a comment below!

xoxo-RPO1

Back and Better than Ever!!

Hello!!!! I'm Baaaaaack! I took a little blogging hiatus but I am so excited to be back in action. I've had a couple of very fun adventures that I can't wait to share with all of you and there is still plenty of summer left so there is so much time for blogging!

This is obviously just a hello post and I am starting back on working on all things Party of One! If you have an ideas for blog posts on questions you want me to answer leave a comment below!

Happy Tuesday!
xoxo- RPO1

Fabulous Finds Friday!

TGIF! What a crazy week this has been, but I am glad to say that it is Friday and that means it's time for my fabulous finds!

This week's spot light is on one of my best friends Samantha Morales! She is so fabulous and her hustle is awesome so of course I needed to share her fabulousity with all of you. First off she has her own baking business Short Stacks By Sam! She makes cakes, cupcakes, and even cake pops! It can be a very cumbersome task that takes lots and lots of hours of work, but she always pulls out the most beautiful creations. I would also like to mention the fact that she has 2 other jobs besides being an amazing baker! She is a mogul in the making people so make sure you are on the look out for her!

 I think one of the things that really set her apart from any bakery that you can go to is that she puts her heart and soul into all the cakes, and cupcakes that she makes and it really does show! 

Sam has been working at her craft since 2011, and she really has a talent for baking, everything she's made that I have tasted has been absolutely amazing and not to mention everything is so creative. I am literally in awe of how she can make these beautifully edible creations into realities that people all over are getting to enjoy!

Honestly I think that a dessert is the best part of the meal and  always to best way to commemorate any occasion! 

Everyone wants to be unique and what better way to do that by showing off with a kick ass baked confection from Short Stacks By Sam and without further adieu here are some of her master pieces that I am absolutely obsessed with!

Do you have a ladies who lunch function coming up? These are PERFECTION!

How cute is Olaf? Any Frozen fan would love this!

The details on these cupcakes are absolutely amazing! I love the little race cars and their drivers!

This birthday cake is everything! No better way to celebrate!

Avengers Assemble and eat cupcakes! These would be perfect for any avengers party or for any nerd a heart :)

I literally can not get over how real this cake looks! What a perfect way to celebrate a major mile stone!

This wedding cake is just darling and I love the flower touches. (BTW the cake topper is too funny!)

What Harry Potter fan would not freak out about these cupcakes?! They are amazing!!

Lastly is it graduation season and who doesn't need a graduation cake?! 

Sam does such an amazing job with all of her creations I can't wait to see what else she will come out with! If you are interested in ordering any of these confectionery creations contact her at Short Stacks By Sam!

Have a good weekend! 

xoxo- RPO1